SHOOT Demi Lovato - Inked magazine July 2022 issue

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Hey Demi, maybe grow your hair out like this and let go of the stupid, non-binary buzz cut.

 

Hey kolobos51, maybe instead of acting like an entitled scumbag that wants a person to bend to his will so that you can beat your meat to them without wondering if it makes you "a little" gay, you find someone out of the billions of other women in the world that checks all the boxes on your list.

If thats not clear enough, this isnt the place to post about your intolerant, judgemental views of social or gender issues.

 

The guy is allowed his opinions of her haircut. You are far too heavy with your authority. He wasn't being intolerant at all.
If you want to bring the gender debate into it go ahead. She is all about claiming gender non binary, but constantly stating a fully "female" image.
But either way, Whenever I see you post I see you being threatening to members. It's not cool for a mod or admin to be that way. You make the place uncomfortable. Pretty sure you are going to ban me here, but that's fine. I think you abuse your abilities here a lot of the time so I feel like it needs said.

I don't thin the guy was being intolerant, anti-gay or against these "social issues" as you make out. I just think you want to come down on him because you can. Not cool. If any member in here called you an entitled scumbag they would be banned right away, but you get to do so.

 

pretty sure HE brought up the gender debate when referring to her as having a “stupid, non binary buzzcut “. Pretty sure there’s rules about bringing that kind of negativity to this forum. So, I’m glad the MOD is finally focusing on these trash talkers. it’s simple: be appreciative that people have posted something nice for you to stare at and you can’t appreciate it, then simply keep it to yourself and move on. Nobody, including the people who posted the pictures, needs to hear anybody’s negative opinion on something that’s supposed to be fun. There has been a lot of trash talkers popping up recently. I’m glad to see some push against them.

 

I know maj good enough (with respect to maj) that i feel confident to say that he loves discussion and debate in this case its more about how its presented. It comes across as derrogatory due to certain choices of words ftom the poster. Correct me if lm wrong maj.

 

God forbid people have opinions.

 

I understand moderators need to moderate, but the mod called a the guy gay, an entitled scumbag, and a meat beater. Surely mods can word their replies with a bit more 'moderation...' without personally insulting a member.

 

You're pretty obviously cut from the same cloth, so I don't expect you to see how insulting kolob's post was. I come to this forum to enjoy myself and not to see the vile bigotry, hatred, and "othering" of anyone who might not fit into your tiny, myopic worldview. I, for one, welcome this moderation here. This should be a hate-free zone. Keep that poison to yourselves.

 

You understand nothing. You seem to think that people who show no respect or concern for anyone elses feelings or time deserve to be treated with a soft touch? The amount of hateful, cruel comments I see here on almost a daily basis for absolutely no reason and you want to bring up the way I carry myself? You can have whatever opinion you want about me but the fact is that Im always reactive. I do not go into threads with no purpose other than to tear someone down. A reaction is exactly what people that make these ridiculous statements, that you would almost never say in public, unless you truly are a repugnant human being, want. The reaction naturally befits the cause. Its logic.

The problem is that some of you think the same rules that govern where you live apply here and they dont. When you show a lack of respect for the subject, your fellow members and the rules of this board, you will be treated as such. You can say that I use my authority to my advantage. Id agree. Id also say thats what Im supposed to do. I didnt call Kolobos a scumbag. I accused him of acting like one, which he did. He specifically said "stupid non binary". He brought the gender issue up and made it clear how he felt about it. Last time I checked, being called stupid is negative to the point of being offensive. His view doesnt sound tolerant or open to debate.

The answer here is very, very simple. Stay within the guidelines of the board rules and the rules of conduct and and dealings with me can be completely avoided. Trust me, after 13 years of moderating this board, there are very few of you that I would have any interest in consorting with. Dont come here thinking you have freedom to say whatever fucked up thing you want to say because you had a bad day or a bad life and you wont have any issue. I dont want to hear nonsense about debate and conversation when that debate or conversation is nothing more than a bunch of people doing offensive things and a bunch of other people being offended. Its stupid. It serves no purpose. Its against the rules.

Ill end with this. Theres a whole section of this board strictly for debate and chatting and sharing all kinds of obscure stuff called The Lounge. I dont see any of you over there creating any threads or having any conversations or chatting or sharing opinions. Thats because there is zero interest in any of that no matter how many of you claim that to be the case. All most of you that are bothered by me are interested in is saying or reading provocative, triggering and trollish commentary. Im sure that says something about all of you but I honestly couldnt care less what. Just follow the rules. Thats all I care about.